My reply …

Dumbass tries a more simple tactic….

At his point I kinda stopped and thought hang on a gawd damn minute! I went and checked their profile out.  We don’t like the same things according to his fetish list. Infact the person states he wants play partners and not looking for a long term partner. My profile says nothing. Unless ‘single’ is an indication to him that he can act like a complete tard. I f he came up to me in a random public situation on the street I’d probably punch him in the face or berate the fuck out of him for being so god damn rude.

See where what goes ?????

So I replied…

Really? You got that without talking to me first?

I’m sorry if I come across as abrupt or rude but I expect common day manners as with any stranger I’d meet on or offline.

You know absolutely nothing about me but immediately asumed me in a ‘masochist’ sense and not a human being. I am not available for casual sex

However if you do genuinely want to chat then go for it

Funnily enough he hasn’t replied.

Go figure.

Lesson #1 in Online Conversation

1. Treat her like a woman. Not another pair of legs you can pry apart and amuse yourself with.

2. Have some manners.

3. Starting a conversation with ‘Hi’ is a great start.

4. Don’t assume just because someone has a profile on a fetish site they are an easy screw.

To answer his inane question …

mas·och·ism

1. Psychiatry . the condition in which sexual gratification depends on suffering, physical pain, 
and humiliation.
2. gratification gained from pain, deprivation, degradation, etc. inflicted or imposed on oneself, 
either as a result of one’sown actions or the actions of others, especially the tendency to 
seek this form of gratification.
3. the act of turning one’s destructive tendencies inward orupon oneself.
4. the tendency to find pleasure in self-denial, submissiveness,etc.

You see being a masochist isn’t as simple as lumping it into a nicely pre defined box such as being spanked.  Neither is it put nicely into a wee box that entails the point of orgasm from pain. Infact for most masochists it’s a huge combination of many different things including a good, strong dynamic between a masochist and their sadist. My masochism isn’t unleashed with random strangers from quick hook ups. I’m likely to rip your head off if you try.

Todays lesson is simple…

Take your time to know the person before you unleash the kink.