I feel the urge to rant so rant I will.
I am a Master who is seeking a slave to train to serve me in a 24/7 TPE relationship. I am looking to own this slave as my property and to use it and dehumanize it however it pleases me to do so. If you were to be interested in being trained to be my slave as such property you should prepare yourself for the extreme nature of my treatment of you as my property. You will have no rights and will belong to me as a piece of property to do with as I see fit at all times. I would love to humiliate and degrade you in the kinkiest of ways. Your life will no longer be your own. Everything you were will cease to exist and you will become a thing, property, my slave. I will use and abuse you mercilessly and constantly. You will have nothing except me as your Master. I will be your everything. Your mouth, your cunt and your asshole will become holes to be used for pleasure by whomever and whatever I deem fit. You will obey me as your Master immediately because your will and desires will be my pleasure and my will and desires. You will serve me as a perfect slave always obedient. Are you interested in being owned by me as your Master?
See how stupid this is? Srsly. One of many ridiculous first messages one is prone to get when surfing the world wide interwebz from what I can only call a Duminant.
Last night whilst perusing a fellow bloggers blog I came across a comment that referred to this site … Born Slaves have a read, go on I dare ya. Let’s see how much you can read before your eye’s start rolling. Consequently I went looking deeper and found the person who referred this site has nevah been a slave. It’s great to live in the land of fantasy. Really it is fun but sometimes we need a good old smack of reality.
I read alot of blogs. Alot of slaves blogs. I also talk to a few good friends who live in an M/s relationship. They are real people with real lives, kids, jobs, family issues, real stuff. And not one of them adheres to this codswallop. They struggle, they often headfuck themselves in the process but they are happy. They are not however doormats and they all have fantastical brains to boot. They have minds and yes they are not afraid to say what they think. I doubt any of them believe they were “born to serve” either. What they have is an amazing relationship exploring a simple power exchange. It’s not all roses. None of them walk around in lala land either. These are intelligent women. According to the various fluff on the website no one I know is one of those “destined born slaves” … funny that huh?
This site has to be the spawn of the mass amount of interwebz duminants that spam our inbox’s full of the ridiculous crap that you see above. Sites like this don’t help, they encourage every mysoginist out there to walk off believing they they have a supreme power and can use this kind of website fluff to command obedience. Forgetting these are real people with hearts, family, careers and the one key thing, it’s earnt not demanded. It’s a two way street. Yes alot get satisfaction in living in a TPE relationship. It does not however mean they leave their brains at the door.
These days since adding “poly” to my profiles I get pretty much left alone. I wish I had done it sooner as it’s a great relief not to see or read that utter bollocks anymore. It’s just icky.
What worries me the most though is for some reason some people get so lost in this D/s fantasy land that they leave their brains in their ass and think that this shit is okay. That somehow all this is something to adhere to and treat it as if it is some form of bible without actually experiencing it at all. And worse off giving advice to someone who is actually living a real life in a very real relationship, who happens to use a journal to let off steam, to work out the little headfucks that go on in her head. The assumption that she would need this site to “help” her is just fucking ridiculous. Even moreso coming from someone who has never actually lived in an M/s relationship.
BORN SLAVERY is a community of those who are in pursuit of their destiny, period. Any other interest or pursuit is something else. Destiny can only be acquired after we each qualify ourselves to be ready to accept what our creator intended for us. First of all, we are qualified only after we have learned everything we need to learn, have experienced everything we need to experience, and failed at everything we need to fail at to make us willing to accept the truth.
Creator? Destiny?Who says? Who exactly?
Is it the Grand Poohbah of Master’s from the Yurpeean Hoose of the Twuu Way of Submittiveness? This dude that heads the site, and surprisingly not there is a Yahoo group too, is referred to as SlaveMaster (how original). Mebe it’s a new cult! Ooo do we get spechul robes to wear? Is it better than online Gor? Do we get a membership card?
People before kink.
Get real.
I think I’ll become a born again slave thanks to a wonderful insightful site such as this (in fantasy land of course) 
Be careful what sucks you in on the world wide interwebz, you might never come back to reality…
remittance girl
on Jun 12th, 2009
@ 14:41:
I’m really glad to see a practitioner writing a post like this. Because for people who are searching and in need of self-realization within some sane confines, those types of sites are – I’m sorry to say this, because I don’t often support any type of censorship – fucking dangerous.
Excellent post. Really, truly excellent
remittance girl’s last blog post..Beautiful Losers – Chapter 21
thekittenpup
on Jun 12th, 2009
@ 14:57:
So true so true… it’s websites like that that lead to abusive relationships, and people feeling like they deserve it. (Well, that’s not the only thing but you know what i mean.)
It’s crap like that that makes others think people like me are going to be willing to drop everything at their pinky finger’s whim even though i already have a Master. Even having things such as “i am a consensual slave in a relationship. i have a Master. please do not message me” i still get messages trying to engage me in sexual conversation or even arguing with me when i decline to start a relationship with them…despite already having one.
Supposedly, me being submissive makes this “Please respect that i already have a relationship. i am happy in said relationship. Please leave me alone” message not mean anything and it makes it okay to continue messaging me.
It does not! i am submissive to my Master only. Being submissive does not mean we want to be abused. It means we put enough trust in our partner to allow them to make decision for us. For some we enjoy bdsm, for others we don’t.
Being submissive, we are actually very strong people in that we are able to give up those things, and put that much trust in someone else. Giving up and putting that much trust in Master has made me even stronger, has made me more sure of myself, had made me a better me.
So to those of you who think i’m some kind of doormat, or am abused, or like to be abused: piss off.
thekittenpup’s last blog post..Evolved Diamond Lustre
subtle
on Jun 12th, 2009
@ 15:03:
I HUV SEEN ME DUH LITE TOO!
Awww…thanks impy for ranting with me:)
I always find a repetitive theme with trolls: they don’t blog, they don’t have any experience of a down-to-earth M/S relationship and they tend to be wankers.
At the moment I’m being highly entertained by a troll over where I post my vids. Apparently I’m ‘wrong’ to write what I think on my blog and should be ‘writing it on fetlife’…wtf???
Trolls…at least they’re amusing.
Hey, maybe I should try the ‘poly’ trick too
subtle’s last blog post..So what do you do when…
Chloe
on Jun 12th, 2009
@ 15:26:
You should read my blog more often. Because I adhere EXACTLY to that “codswallop” as you call it.
It’s my destiny. I was born to serve – anyone and everyone, at all times and for all time. Also, I have no struggles because, as previously mentioned, this is my destiny. (Totally unrelated to “not having struggles,” but would you ignore tomorrow’s post? Kthnx.)
I also think that post by that Master was, in a word, masterful.
Yours was better, though. *grins*
~Chloe
Chloe’s last blog post..Serving a Purpose
Nolens Volens
on Jun 12th, 2009
@ 16:12:
You know what popped up in my head while reading that bull cookies? Nerds who think they have found a way to get laid. LOL
Nolens Volens’s last blog post..Hotel Series #2
Liras
on Jun 12th, 2009
@ 16:45:
You provided me with my evening chuckle, VnImp.
Don’t you know that slaves are made, not born. Via a simple little trick called brain-washing, one can internalize the fucked-up fantasy and make it real. Well, to a degree. (Hell, I know a few women in bad relationships, that if we added a collar and a branding on their ass, they would be slaves.)
For the insane and deluded ‘master’, total subjugation is the only way they can have a D/s set-up.
Sad but existing in homes across the world.
Makes me extra glad I am bitch with a backbone.
Liras’s last blog post..Doppelganger
vanimp
on Jun 12th, 2009
@ 17:53:
@thekittenpup, Heh ain’t assumptions silly;)
vanimp
on Jun 12th, 2009
@ 17:54:
@subtle, I love your posts hun they make me chuckle.
What irks me the most is this “one twuu way bullshit” even worse when it comes from unfounded experience.
Hehe the poly thing tends to scare off alot of judgemental people, tis kinda a blessing
vanimp
on Jun 12th, 2009
@ 17:56:
@Chloe, Hehe you are truly a giggle. I shall take more notice of this “codswallop” in future
vanimp
on Jun 12th, 2009
@ 17:57:
@Nolens Volens, They might have a way with words but watching them actually live that crap is what I wanna see
vanimp
on Jun 12th, 2009
@ 17:58:
@Liras, Conditioning is the word I believe
Yes sad hun, I am expecting somone to try and show me the light *snikker*
Tristan's pet
on Jun 12th, 2009
@ 21:18:
What a hoot! I found this: “Slave development is somewhere between difficult and impossible to accomplish when a slave is living with its Owner.” Damn! I’m fucked then! So disappointed to hear we’ve been doing it all wrong. You really have to wonder what planet these people are on!
Still, it raised a chuckle.
Huggles
Tp xx
Tristan’s pet’s last blog post..Missing
Tristan
on Jun 12th, 2009
@ 21:36:
hmm…well one good thing comes of this…
Imp, you said something about “special robes” and I figured, hell that’s a fun idea. I think ALL “slaves”, born or made, should wear ONLY those sexy little Kajira outfits like in SL. Everyday, 24/7, just whisps of lace and little silver chains. At the office, the day-care centre, the coffee shops, everywhere. That way, if I see a “slave” I can simply take my pleasure in her or him without having to think or prove my experience and skill.
It’s WIN/win isn’t it? I get to relax knowing that I can find a slave easily and use it as is my right and the slave gets to serve, a lot, and often…as they need to.
God what a load of cat droppings. Hey Pygar! Whaddaya think? Kajira costumes all around?
Belladonnax
on Jun 12th, 2009
@ 23:08:
I cruised on over to the site you mentioned, with an open mind and all that. You know, be accepting of others, your kink is not my kink but blah blah blah …
Anyone believing a word of that pompous bullshit is welcome to show up here and be my human toilet.
Free of charge.
*snort*
moltenthought
on Jun 12th, 2009
@ 23:28:
LOOOOOOL @ Bella
I too went to that site to see if I could find anything that have a wee bit of redemption for it. Nada. Zilch. Zero. Nuttin.
Any toileting volunteers??
Belladonnax
on Jun 12th, 2009
@ 23:57:
Not as yet. They’ll be shivering outside on my Dommely DoorStep, practising their slave positions and memorizing a list of My Preferred Sex Positions. And practising saying “Anything your heart desires, oh Supreme Goddess of All That is Holy, oh Beautiful One Worthy of Life-long Worship”
They’d better get it right or they’ll be sorry :p
viemoira
on Jun 13th, 2009
@ 07:16:
As soon as i ask my Master what my opinion is on this i will let you know, *if* He says i can…
velvet_steel
on Jun 13th, 2009
@ 11:37:
Found on CollarMe:
“The main goal is for the slave to stop consider herself as a person but as an object or non human. The purpose for me to do this is to have a very focused and devoted and obedient slave. When a slave is objectified she never talks about herself in first person, she never speak until spoken too, she do whatever she is told without questions and never consider her own needs. When the slave is able to completely disconnect herself from her own feelings and stop caring about what is happening to her, she is getting close to the goal. She can be put to use as a table, a chair, a lamp or any other kind of object, her mind is blank and she can stand there for hours without complaining. As for dehumanization the slave is trained as an doll, an pet or animal. Normally she don’t talk, or walk in a normal way; as a pet she walks on all four and as a pony she walks more like a horse but on her hind legs. The goal is to completely make the slave to believe she is that animal or that she is that mindless doll. She will be trained to act and behave as the desired thing. Many slaves describe the feeling when they are fully trained as it is a surreal kind of euphoria and freedom. They can be used, raped or in other ways abused but they feel they are standing outside of it all, don’t care or feel no matter what it is they are being put through. They feel an inner calm that is very rewarding. The training is very straight forward for the slave. The first 2 weeks is about breaking the slave mentally, to break through that inner barriers, taboos and limits that makes her unfocused. By having constant mental pressure on her, special diet, sensory deprivation and regular abuse she is soon turned around and ready to be trained. After this phase the slave is put through behaviour training that can take up to a year.”
No comment!
vanimp
on Jun 13th, 2009
@ 11:41:
@velvet_steel, And that is why collarme is full of fucktards and brainless eejits that live in fantasy land. That’s quite sick…”dehumanization” … it’s scary to think what women actually get themselves in really fucked up situations because of all the crap on the net.
vanimp
on Jun 13th, 2009
@ 11:42:
@Tristan, Rofl I can see it clearly.
vanimp
on Jun 13th, 2009
@ 11:43:
@Belladonnax, An iron in hand huh? *snikkers*. Bring on the human toilets LOL
vanimp
on Jun 13th, 2009
@ 11:43:
@viemoira, Yes cauze yano slaves have no brains
Belladonnax
on Jun 13th, 2009
@ 23:50:
I don’t mind ‘dehumanization’ or fucked up situations, I can be a table, I can use a chair, I like dolls and ponies and animals. I am adaptable.
But talking about myself in third person?
nah-uh. Deal breaker. I’m sorry. Even a freak has limits.
pfft.
vanimp
on Jun 14th, 2009
@ 03:05:
@remittance girl, For some reason Akismet keeps spamming your comments which annoys the hell out of me lol. Thank you hunni for your support. I agree, fucking dangerous indeed.