I have a busy weekend ahead and a few things to attend to so it may be quiet here over the next couple of days. Spending time with Velvet & Molten are at the top of my list.
I am also currently working on an idea that involves writing a review on here on a regular basis with Eden Fantasys but in my own special way as I do not want to inundate the blog with reviews and take away from what I do here already. I have too big of a fetish with writing erotica and all the other snippets I do.
If you haven’t seen a recent post regarding the Orgasm Meme I started please take a look and perhaps share your thoughts along with the many who have already done so. It’s quite fascinating! And I am so chuffed because we already have two male perspectives in the mix! It is proving to be an interesting wee exercise and after reading them all this morning I had the urge to go and relieve myself with my own orgasm or three hehe. You gotta love that daaaamn Hitachi. (it took me a while to come back from lala land)
Here’s mine lol …
1. What’s your favourite way to have an orgasm?
Doggy style most definitely, it hits all the right spots and allows toy use too. And double penetration always does it. Or one of those slow hawt sex escapades where it builds to a screaming crescendo.
2. Do you use a sex toy? Hands? or both?
I can use my hands but I never get an orgasm out of just using my hands, and I have repetitive strain injury from an old job which can make using my hands painful so I prefer the use of a vibe. I have a clit that is a bitch so she needs lotsa stimulation.
3. Do you have a favourite time of day or night that you like to pleasure yourself or have sex?
I love middle of the night sex, sleepy sex and morning sex, during the day is great but I am normally in work mode and busy brain mode
4. Do you feel you have different types of orgasms?
Hell yes, clit, g-spot, dp ones are over the top intense. Then there’s the ones that just keep going and going
5. Do you have a position or a technique that always guarantees an orgasm?
Doggy with the Hitachi on the clit and g spot stimulation, usually means I end up on my face in a drooling heap, or a good pounding with my feet wrapped round my ears.
6. Is having your clit directly stimulated pleasurable for you? What about after an orgasm?
Yes. After orgasm highly likely I will trun into demon spawn and tell you to keep your fucking hands off my clit or my eyes will roll into the back of my headand I disappear into the land of gaga. Either that or it’s so damn sensitive that it hurts.
7. Do you masturbate/pleasure yourself?
Yes, often. Especially after reading too much erotica or watching kinky porn.
8. Has your self pleasuring repertoire/routine/technique changed or evolved over time?
Always changing, especially with new toys and different partners.
9. Are sex toys part of your self pleasuring or with a partner? Or both?
Totally both, kinky and non kinky. My favourite toys though are a guys hands and teeth.
10. If you enjoy using sex toys how often do you upgrade your equipment?
Hmm when I break stuff or when I want something faster, more powerful or more evil to sate my needs.
11. Whats the most intense orgasm you have ever had?
Hah! Actually now I look back my very first orgasm had me completely gaga to the point I couldn’t move or speak but at the time I had no idea what the fuck was going on with my body, nowdays I know better and I want some more of that please hehe.
12. How often do you orgasm? Daily, more than once a day, weekly, monthly….???
Depends on what’s going on at the time, sometimes a few a day, sometimes none for days. I like to have them on a regular basis.
13. Do you regard orgasm to be a stress reliever?
Fuck yes, totally. Great for crampy tummy and headaches too. Also brilliant for an insomniac who can’t sleep lol.
14. What happens to you after orgasm? Full of energy, a bit lala or ready to go to sleep?
I am just like a guy, I sleep. Or I am space cadet for a bit and then I am rearing to go.
15. Have you ever squirted?
No. I’m curious but I don’t want to start and then do it all the time. I have ishoos with messy things lol.
16. Do you fantasize when you masturbate? Or do you just get right down to it?
Nope. I fantasize before but not during. Switch the mind on first and the rest follows. I’m too busy getting off to fantasize at the time.
17. What do you like about having an orgasm? Is it important you have an orgasm every time?
I like sitting there feeling like a headless goof straight afterwards. I love what an orgasm does to my whole body. I love watching a partner orgasm, that point where the intensity is sat there right on their face. I love the release. I like orgasms but I don’t have one everytime, does it bother me? Yea sometimes when I walk around like a crazed horny beast afterwards not satisfied, other times I don’t give a shit if I don’t.
So there you have it, that’s mine.
The point of doing this was simply because I am a curious wee thing and love how the human mind works and I am genuinely intrigued as to how we all explore ourselves sexually. The other reason is my love of writing and the need to get more inside people’s heads to be able to write even better erotica to tantalise those senses. And I have to feed the hungry eyes that frequent here as well as my own fantasys.
It has also given breath to some interesting talking points as far as orgasms and the female and male approach, the subtle differences we all have to achieve that amazing state of bliss, and the fact that so many are willing to share. It’s uber cool. It’s something I will expand on more in the follow up post on Tuesday.
So if you haven’t had a go, please do. I like people who like to share their most private thoughts. For those of you who are curious as to what others have written there are some links below, pop over and say hi and if you are not on the list, then please let me know so I can link you and have a gander.
Bucking Bill
on Jun 19th, 2009
@ 19:28:
Lol my girl friend said she is the same way about what you said on number six
Bucking Bill
on Jun 20th, 2009
@ 00:22:
Lol my girl friend said she is the same way about what you said on number six
Sorry… forgot to say great post – can’t wait to read your next one!
Chloe
on Jun 20th, 2009
@ 15:03:
I have my own confession to make, and it has nothing to do with orgasms. (For the record, I’ve had ONE in like, six months, at least. I hate my life in so many ways.)
Anyway, I have a SMALL and very secret hatred of blogs that are like, 90% reviews. Couple reviews once in a while? Cool. But it drives me up a goddamn WALL to be advertised to 24/7. If someone has a blog that outright claims it’s focused on sextoys? Okayfine, I shall read there and ASSUME the content is gonna be about sextoys! (Actually, I won’t read there, because that would bore me to tears, but, yanno, other people might.) But a BDSM blog that claims to be about, yanno, a BDSM RELATIONSHIP (or relationshipS as the case may be) that focuses the majority of its material on implements that may (or may not) play a role that SOME people might enjoy in ONE aspect of a relationship?
Gag me. (Pun optional.)
~Chloe, who can’t help but speak her mind, even when it involves altogether too many uses of CAPSLOCK
.-= Chloe´s last blog ..The Thing About That Falcon… =-.
vanimp
on Jun 20th, 2009
@ 15:17:
@Chloe, I get that and its part of the reason I don’t want to turn this place into something I am not. The reviews that “do” end up on here will only be ones that actually fit with what I am writing about and ONLY if they are actually something I “like” and as far writing goes on here, I sum it up in my about page. I have told them how I feel about blogs that have no “content” and just reviews, it gets far too freekin tiresome. As far as reviews I am looking at perhaps doing one every two weeks and writing them the way “I” want to
I have stopped reading many because of the simple fact I am sick to death of reading the same crap on 20 different blogs
And btw I love the fact you said something. I agree xxxx
velvet_steel
on Jun 20th, 2009
@ 15:55:
15. All the time…
vanimp
on Jun 20th, 2009
@ 16:11:
@velvet_steel, Hmmppff you iz both brats
remittance girl
on Jun 22nd, 2009
@ 13:13:
1. What’s your favourite way to have an orgasm?
Semi-clothed, up against a wall.
2. Do you use a sex toy? Hands? or both?
I do have a vibe, but I find it makes me a little insensitive if I use it too often, so fingers.
3. Do you have a favourite time of day or night that you like to pleasure yourself or have sex?
During rainstorms. The Monsoon season is a serious challenge for me. I’m horny all the time.
4. Do you feel you have different types of orgasms?
Definitely. Clit orgasms are spiky and quick, a combination of vaginal penetration and clit is long and deep and very satisfying. Orgasm that involve any anal contact are almost too intense.
5. Do you have a position or a technique that always guarantees an orgasm?
On my side, legs closed, fingers between them.
6. Is having your clit directly stimulated pleasurable for you? What about after an orgasm?
Yes to the first. After an orgasm, I’ll climb out of my skin.
7. Do you masturbate/pleasure yourself?
Often. Once a day, usually. Sometimes more.
8. Has your self pleasuring repertoire/routine/technique changed or evolved over time?
When I was young, I had almost exclusively clitoral orgasms, and I masturbated to achieve that end. As I’ve grown older, I masturbate more often, and it often involves penetration.
9. Are sex toys part of your self pleasuring or with a partner? Or both?
I don’t have a partner.
10. If you enjoy using sex toys how often do you upgrade your equipment?
Seldom. I’m in a place where you can’t buy them. I have to wait till I get to civilization
11. Whats the most intense orgasm you have ever had?
Honestly, my first experience with anal sex gave me the most intense orgasm of my life.
12. How often do you orgasm? Daily, more than once a day, weekly, monthly….???
Once a day, sometimes more.
13. Do you regard orgasm to be a stress reliever?
No. But then I enjoy certain types of stress. I find it focuses me. It’s especially good to do BEFORE I write, otherwise, I get side-tracked.
14. What happens to you after orgasm? Full of energy, a bit lala or ready to go to sleep?
I find that after, I have very good clarity of mind.
15. Have you ever squirted?
Yes! But only recently. It was rather disconcerting.
16. Do you fantasize when you masturbate? Or do you just get right down to it?
I fantasize like crazy. Especially voices, words. Really filthy ones. But what would you expect from a writer?
17. What do you like about having an orgasm? Is it important you have an orgasm every time?
It’s not really a like – it’s a need. In all honesty, I wouldn’t masturbate just for the sensation, I’d always masturbate to orgasm. With another person, however, I still tend to orgasm quite easily. I don’t remember ever being with someone and not having an orgasm.
Orgasm Oddities :: vanillaimpaired
on Jun 23rd, 2009
@ 23:55:
[...] And if you missed the other two posts you can find them here & here. [...]
vanimp
on Jun 24th, 2009
@ 00:28:
@remittance girl, Thank you