Gawd its been hard to do a decent post lately. My headspace has been focused on work and there’s been alot of it over the past week. The little one started school on Monday and I have been adjusting to getting my sleeping routine a little more sorted. I’m now going to sleep by midnight rather than 2am lol. And adjusting to having a whole six hours to myself to focus on work. We iz getting there slowly.

There’s been so many changes with moving and settling I haven’t had much energy for alot else of late. I’m still working on getting my shirt shop up and running and designing shirt labels and the likes inbetween work. Once its functional I will link it here as I would love some feedback from you lot. I am also about to embark on learning a little more coding and setting up wordpress cms sites and the design side to hopefully extend my work skills to pick up more work I enjoy doing. WordPress has so many variations to work with and its a software I like to work with. I did my first paid blog design with a little coding work the other week and quite proud of it. I would show you but I don’t like to mix work and personal blog stuff (if you are curious flick me an email and I’ll show you).

With winter coming I have started cooking the big crockpot casseroles and we’ve been having impromptu family meals with the Fluffy clan. I bought a merlot the other night called the “Lonely Cow” … the label was so funny I had to have it … the wine however tasted like dirt so it got plonked into the casserole and the casserole was labeled the Lonely Cow Casserole hehe.  Was okay but not one of my better ones. Its really cool to be able to hang out together of late. Those are special times for me. We have a couple of new poly friends popping over for wine tomorrow night so that’ll be awesome to catch up. Time is rather precious these days and balancing it all is becoming an art lol. But I wouldn’t change it for a moment.

I sent a long winded email to the ex this morning asking for financial help regarding the little ones education as I have already spent a good $300 on school costs and we had agreed when we split that he would contribute to at least half of the little ones education costs. So we’ll see. honestly I am not expecting anything because its alwasy tied with emotional shit. The little one has decided he doesn’t want to talk to Daddy again so the ex is likely to pull out of the financial promise because his son isn’t talking to him. Personally its a pathetic excuse but thats what he is like and I know that. What the silly fucker doesn’t realise is if he continues to use that as an excuse for parental support over the next few years he will fuck up his relationship with his son. Either way my son’s education is important and I will do it with or without his dad’s help. But it would be nice for him to step up and help out. Mebe I should just start calling him the sperm donor instead *chuckle*

Hehe oh and the blog is just about one year old, the 13th of May to be exact so I’ll have to think of something special to do, it’ll be HNT night that day so mebe a different kind of HNT. Got any requests? *snigger*

And on that note not much else I am inspired to write today so I am going to disappear again and get some more work done. Ugh.