What’s worse than a liar? A liar who has less than honest or moral intentions. I made a complaint today regarding a fetish and a user on Fetlife I am more than concerned about. A fetish regarding “real incest”, now I know that your kink is your own and others may not see it that way but when does one draw the line to something that’s not okay?
Maybe it’s the four years training I recieved when modding and reporting suspected pedo’s, dealing with pedo’s … it made my skin crawl then as a human being and a parent and it still fucks me off that this shit is allowed. Apparently it’s okay to be into “real incest” … wtf! Why on earth would you even want to encourage that type of thing? There are plenty of sites that cater for it already, why tarnish a good site with that rubbish?
What bothered me more was one line I read on this user’s profile … if we write/meet just for fun, then age isn’t important, is it? <<< errr if it’s a fucking child then ahh yea it IS! I am annoyed and disappointed that this type of thing isn’t concerning. Well I tried and I failed so this person now is able to carry on their bullshit farce of being somthing they are not … Fucking insane if you ask me but hey I did my bit. I love that site but it seriously needs some definate terms and conditions laid down better. Past experience dealing with a site with a huge number of members and the issues that arose taught me it’s better to be prepared and have steps in place than give the benefit of the doubt and go “oh shit” later down the track …
selkie
on Jan 6th, 2009
@ 03:18:
truth, I was one of the first people on Fet and I think one of the first to leave – couldn’t handle the crap quite frankly. Umm, incest is against the law (and I mean manmade law – the fact that it is also against any moral and other law of decency is moot) I would complain again and again and get others to as well.
I’m with you- if you are into stuff I don’t dig, fine- but when it comes to kids – ALL BETS ARE OFF – children deserve PROTECTING and that means even virtually.
vanimp
on Jan 6th, 2009
@ 08:31:
Thank you selkie, I feel like it’s falling on deaf ears and more people need to say hey, this is okay to encourage this type of thing. problem is any site is going to have children on it, even Fetlife, it’s not that hard to create a profile to sneak in, children’s curiosity will take care of that. I encountered it often, underage children sneaking on under adult profiles. There needs to be a line drawn, children DO need to be protected.