Well I suppose it’s time to bring the Fluffy Family into the blog a little more, I said I would, I just wasn’t sure how to go about it as well. I have avoided it simply because parts of me are private, some extremely so and exploring the whole poly aspect is something I wanted to do away from the blog for a little while, to get myself grounded and in the right headspace to be able to verbalise it a little better and I am still finding my feet. Now I am at a point where I can see so much potential with the fluffies and letting things evolve naturally has given me a comfortable space to be able to write about it.
Why the “Fluffy” family … they are all kitties, hooman kitties … hehe who says dogs and cats don’t get along eh?
Molten (subbie) is married to Kiwig. She also has a relationship with a dominant, Velvet. Kiwig is a switch and has a girlfriend, Monkey who’s a switch. Confused yet?
I’m keeping this to fluid partners only, there are others who are associated with the fluffies as well but it gets complicated when I start adding all the various other non sexual relationships into the fold and the immediate fluffies are the ones which will be mentioned here mostly so I’ll keep it simple. Me, well I’m just a wolf in fluffy clothing aka wolfie 
wroof. I’ll be moving up here in roughly a month’s time into the house with Molten and Kiwig and then we’ll go house hunting to find a home more suitable to accomodate the clan. We haz mini fluffies to accomodate too, all four of them.
I met one Fluffy online via a message one night a few months back, Molten was looking for subbie friends and I happily replied to her message which sent us on a journey of sharing thoughts, which lead to IM’s and phone chats and eventually meeting the kitties. We clicked really well and I have this amazingly close relationship developing with Molten and it’s wonderful, she grounds me in a lot of ways and enables me to feel comfortable enough to open up on levels I wouldn’t normally go with most people.
It’s funny many assume that a relationship has to involve sex, neither of us are bisexual but there is a dynamic within a D/s context where we seem to bounce off each other in a very energetic mind level, hehe we also bring out the brat in each other. Velvet and I have chatted on and off online for a little while as well, teh beeg kitty or the panther. The best thing is we are all geeks hehe, we all love books and all comp addicts in some form or another, we all fit well. Molten and I have a very special relationship building, not sexual but we have had discussions about the possibility down the track that we may be comfortable enough to be in scene’s together, time will tell lol. Velvet makes me curious hehe, he makes it very easy for me to trust him, whether he knows it or not, that itself is a very big thing for me. Kiwig and I are building an awesome friendship but no attraction there and we all see how this whole dynamic is bringing healthy aspects into relationships for us all. It works. So there are things to explore and either way I have this wonderful wee family of people in my life who are very dear to me.
I then travelled up after a couple months of chatting and met the wee family and was so chuffed that I had found this amazing little dynamic. I remember the first night well, I felt totally at ease and one of the first things Velvet asked was “So are you poly?” … hehe at the time I was exploring myself and I wasn’t too sure back then. I have only met Monkey once as I have only been travelling up on and off over the past few months and her relationship with Kiwig is relatively new so it will be cool to be able to get to know her a little better.
Now I have had the time to look at things from a different perspective and past relationships and the choices I had made personally as far as relationships went and it was obvious I had leanings towards poly, just back then I didn’t give myself a label for the way I chose to connect with people. I tried the monogamous route seriously a couple of times and both failed because we just couldn’t be everything for each other. And their insecurity with my close relationships I had with other males was always a factor that seemed to arise.
I am now at a point where I can see so much potential, alot of groundwork and talking is taking place and will continue when I move up but I feel secure enough to be able to begin writing a little more about this wonderful journey and sharing it here. I’m hanging out here for a couple weeks and then back home to begin packing and ending my lease on the house I have down home. I’m excited and impatient for changes to begin but I am happy that this time I am taking my time and letting things evolve naturally, no expectations, just trying to be in the moment as much as possible. And most importantly enjoying the love coming into my life and being able to give that back too.
So there you go, meet the fluffies aka the bunch of deviant minded cats and one little black wolf
Update: … the fluffy cast is now on the Who’s Who page for easy reference lol x
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