PantheraPardus did one on her blog and I haven’t done a meme in ages and I like doing them hehe.  It’s also fun to learn little things about each other since we tend to be obsessed with each others lives via the good old blogs so here goes…

What are the last three songs you downloaded?
Untouched – The Veronica’s, FMLYHM (fuck me like you hate me) – Seether, Blessed Be – The 69 Eyes

What are the last three places you visited?
Eh? Well that depends on what context, up to Auckland over the weekend, the supermarket to get groceries on Monday and ermm today I didn’t leave the house so last place I visited before sitting here was the kitchen to pick at banana cake I baked tonight … nom nom

What are your three favorite movies?
At this very moment Secretary, Underworld Evolution, ermmm Cars hehe (kids animated movies rock!)

What are your three favorite possessions.
My computer because it’s fantabulous and meaty geek goodness, my new Brisingr book (3rd of the Eragon series), my black corset

What three things can you not live without?
Scrumilicious books, my computer (it keeps me sane), Herne hehe

What would be your three wishes?
Neverending supply of free books of my choosing, a hippie treehut house, a new puppy

What three things haven’t you done yet?
Err fuck I dunno loads of things and still plenty of time to do them all

What are your three favorite dishes?
Hells Pizza, Jack Daniels Cake (I have the recipie nom nom), is coffee a dish??? o_O

Which three celebrities would you most like to hang out with?
Johnny Depp, Billy Connelly, James Spader

Name three things that freak you out?
Spiders, moths and generally most flying insects, vomiting … I fucking hate it

Name three unusual things you are good at.
Being a geek lol, baking munchies when really stoned and they come out right, riding horses backwards lol (don’t ask)

Which three things are you coveting?
A hitachi, a husky or malamute puppy, a black leather lounge suite.

Name three bloggers you are tagging.
I have a long list and I wanna share so help yourselves I ain’t fussy xx

I have a few blog posts to write and in between being a mummy, working from home, spending time with Herne I am readjusting to finding time to do my blog stuff and all the little things I do when I had oodles of time lol. We travelled up north to stay with the fluffy family and attend the monthly munch. Herne had mentioned a while back that I had to have the obligatory birthday spanks which I of course tried to weasel out of, my past relationships weren’t bdsm based, one was a little kinky but we had never gone past a few spanks during sex so I knew the birthday spanking experience was going to be a new one for me and I wasn’t quite sure what to expect.

We booked into the hotel late on Saturday afternoon and he had mentioned I would have difficulty sitting down at the munch, my eyebrows raised and my mind ticking I knew what was coming. Pants down and bent over a chair Herne began to give me my well earned bare bottomed spanks, 35 for each year and five for being a smartass from the other day lol. I got off lightly really as he had mentioned he was thinking 3 for each year. My poor wee virgin ass.

My god they stung like fuck and I squirmed like a banshee not that it made any difference as he continued his onslaught with his bare hand and making sure I didn’t go anywhere and when it was over we had one relieved wee imp but what followed surprised me greatly. I was horny, very wet, spaced and rather flushed hehe.

My ass stung, jeans rubbing on reddened skin, off we went, a brisk 15 min walk to the munch from the hotel. A few ass squeezes from Herne with a few yelps from my lips escaping and when I walked in was given a seat with a grin. One of my darling subbie friends decided she needed to give me a hug and an ass squeeze with a cheeky smirk, lol and lots of jokes were flowing.

It was a great night and I got another one of Curvaceous Dee’s nummy hair pulling head massges but not before making me crawl under the table to get to a seat to get it. I really love the munches, and being the second one got to meet a few more people whom I hope to chat to again. All in all a brilliant night and my first bare bottom spanking experience with me grinning from ear to ear.

These three things are always topics of great interest, and as always there are so many varied opinions. What it comes down to is simply what it means for you personally. Herne and I spent a number of hours discussing various aspects, what we both wanted, for both of us the groundwork was essential. We also discussed the fact for this to work for both of us we had to start this as Master and slave. I have a long way to go yet but I know what I want and he sees in me aspects I am not even fully aware of, but I know they are there and he makes me comfortable that its okay for these aspects to come out of hiding. It’s almost a relief that finally I can explore these areas with someone I trust.

We have begun this journey as Owner and pet as I had told Herne I didn’t want to start off as a relationship without that dynamic, I knew I would find it too difficult to just have a nilla relationship and then build a D/s relationship on top of it. It is a part of him as much as it is a part of me. I wanted someone who had the experience and the skills and he has them. He loves the fact I am a blank canvas and that I have a good understanding of the mind aspects.

I came into this with limits, some stronger than others but I explained that many were what I refer to as soft limits. I know that as time passes some of these limits will not exist anymore when the trust levels become deeper and more established. And we talk, talk, talk. He’s told me that at some point my amount of control will not exist and the word “no” will not be a part of my vocabulary, and I smile because I know it will happen.

Herne does not like safewords and he has explained his reasoning why and I fully understand and accept this, I told him my feelings towards it because I know there are triggers there from past issues that may push me to using one so we have agreed that I do have one and can use it. That is what communication is all about. It’s also about knowing yourself and accepting each others limits, he has limits too. I think sometimes people forget their Masters are humans too lol. Limit is sometimes the wrong word for some things and I found out this week that I am more than eager to push some of them and one doesn’t exist anymore. It had me pleasantly surprised and a bit taken aback at how easy it was to face this one head on.

I wasn’t interested in anal sex mainly because I have haemorrhoids that tend to flare up on occassion, they developed after a difficult birth with my son and can be extremely fucking painful so anal for me was a limit based on fear of pain. What I didn’t realise was how much I like it hehe. So yep, one limit gone, they still are an issue but we are researching ways to deal with the health issue head on and it’s been great to have the support from Herne. The Daddy in him is an aspect I need and he does it well. He looks after me, he doesn’t want to break his pet, and we both want to enjoy things.

We have explored and touched lightly on a few things over the past couple of weeks and we have found out with a little hair pulling and a good chomp or three on the neck I become putty in his hands and get very subbie very quickly lol. He did it in the elevator at the hotel and put me in a headspace where I was so damn spaced out I didn’t even register the person who got in the lift lol. Things are coming to the fore rather quickly and he mentioned last night I was almost eager to jump into alot of things. I am in a way because i have been building myself up slowly over the last few months and exploring myself in a deeper sense, finding out what I wanted and what was important.

The journey has well and truly begun, he makes it easy for me to trust him and with that follows a very eager wee wolfie, almost greedy hehe. He says next time he wants to fuck my ass he’s going to make me beg … and I know I am going to get very red when I do but I know I will beg lol.

The Two Knotty Boys had a great channel on Youtube which had around 60 great videos on how to make various rope bondage designs.

They worked very hard to ensure that their content was within the terms of use which Youtube mandated. They even received an invitation to join the Youtube Partner Program.

Without warning, Youtube shut down the Two Knotty Boys channel. They had no porn up there. No bare breasts. No swearing or sex. No copyrights infringed. They really worked to make everything fit into the Terms of Use. I know because they had people checking their work before uploading it onto Youtube.

This channel had 1,300 subscribers, plenty of favorites and 5-star ratings all around. And all of a sudden, Youtube decide to suspend the account, without reason or warning.

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