Talking to a four year old day in day out does little for the conversation skills. Talking to people who are generally thick do nothing for me either. No I am not being vain, simply honest.

Talking to people who have a heart on the other hand has been wonderful. There are some very special people I have met over the past four years, mainly due to being a mod on a very large chat site for three of them and making some amazing friendships as a result.

Some of those people happen to be submissives, slaves and the odd Dom and Master. Some are parents, some are not, some are writers, artists, business owners and generally very intelligent people and I love every one of them as a close friend.

One thing I learnt over the years of moderating on a chat site is people come from all walks of life. Just because you are sat behind a screen doesn’t make it any different than in RL. People have feelings. We all have stories to tell, we all have things in common, that is after all why we connect or there is a knowing that there is some form of connection that needs to be explored further.

My story is probably a little crazy but it happened and some days I don’t know which way is up and which way is down, and through all of this those friends have been a lifeline, they understand what I am going through, they shared my journey, and they picked me up when I fell. When the world walks out your friends are the ones left standing there and thats what is important in life. The people you meet that have an effect on your life in a positive way are the ones that should be cherished. The ones that don’t walk away when it gets tough.

So thank you to those that have made my hell a little easier to cope with, you truly have no idea how much it means. You know who you are x